Sunday, August 2, 2020

5 months and 23 days

So someone I knew recently broke up. 

For her case, she went through a few broke up with the same guy. During the last breakup, she broke up with the same guy for 2 months and the guy decided to restart the relationship with her. Their relationship was great for the past one year. However, as they prepared to plan for their future like have a house and wedding, the guy suddenly felt that he could not accept certain parts of her. This made him realised that he cannot continue the relationship with her. This was a problem that he flagged up and raised to her but she can't help him to resolve this problem as the problem was her. That's when she decided that they really cannot continue this relationship. She was being so tired in the relationship and it's really not worth it. 

When a relationship comes to an end, there's definitely a reason behind it. If the relationship was that great, why would it have ended? When the relationship ended, should the couple reconsider to work on the relationship again? I think it is possible, provided that it's immediately after the breakup. If it's like this case, 2 months later, initially I thought it's still possible. I was happy when she told him that they decided to work things out again and that I saw their relationship seemed okay. I thought that she would have her "happily ever after" this time round. Never have I thought that she will face a breakup with the same guy, yet again. I thought that they been through so much to get together, why would they want to give up so easily again? Wouldn't they thought so clearly when they decide to get back together? If they decide to get back together, it should never end up with a failure again. I thought her relationship will tell me that miracle exists but now, I guess not. 

I know I shouldn't have any hope. I really don't have. 
It's just that question mark. It's still there. I don't really know what to do with it. 

Please, let time heal everything and take away or bury away this question for me.